Here's a related question: If you were going to pick up and move to another country, what would you take with you? What is in your possession now that you couldn't give up? What things would make your new home "home"? And what could you give up in a heartbeat?
Guess that's several questions, actually. :)
Guess that's several questions, actually. :)
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Sat, July 3, 2004 - 3:18 PMI've given this a fair amount of thought lately. => I'm finding many of the things I feel attached to could be condensed for portability. I'd have to have a laptop, digital cam and cell phone.
Cell phone would help me feel connected. I hate talking on the phone, but it's one of those quick fixes to loneliness, insecurity and fear when you're out of your element. Being able to instantly hear a familiar and friendly voice goes a long way. Digital camera would be critical for me to capture my new surroundings and share them with my family and friends from "home" and also to have something to look back on later in my life.
Laptop: here is where I reformat my life. I could _never_ give up my music collections, but I could survive taking just a few CDs, ripping the rest, and asking a friend to store the physical albums. I'd rip a few movies that I watch often (as to be able to watch on laptop). I could feel secure with only a couple of photographs -- but I could keep hundreds of them on disk to peruse when I'm feeling nostalgic. I'd download texts of many books I've never had time to read. To a lesser extent, keeping in contact with my friends via chatting/email and storing personal contacts (I am not to be trusted with contact information on paper).
As for "making a home", I have a tiny music box stuffed with mementos to go over now and then. And a couple of photographs and sketches. My favorite knitting needles. :) Maybe a tiny stash of tooth-rottingly wonderful Nerds(TM). There are a few other practical things -- perfect boots, comfiest jeans, favorite leather jacket, but if I had to, I think I could disappear with a backpack.
That is, if someone else would deal with getting rid of all of my stuff. ;) I'm not a minimalist, I just suspect almost everything I own could be replaced easily. I could part with almost everything. There are a few things I wouldn't take with me but would have to store somewhere: music, home movies, photographs. Not too much. -
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Sat, July 3, 2004 - 3:45 PMI am a self-avowed pack rat, trying to cull the clutter. Most things I could give up. But I would take my iPod and my laptop and probably a computer if I could.
I guess it depends where I was going and how long I planned to stay. I might take a few things at first and send for the rest if I find my new home abroad.
I *might* choose certain books to go, but likely I would pack up the lot of them and ship them anywhere I plan to be for any length of time. And most if not all of my CDs, although I certainly could rip them to my laptop to save space. that's a good idea. My sewing machine. My deacon's chair. My artwork, if I could. That's bought art. I would take all my original art if I could of course. Otherwise I would store all of that with family.
Good point on the cell phone. I would keep that with me and get an international calling plan on it. Digital camera too. Photos of family as well. An address book and some stationary. And I would love to take my pets, if I thought they would make the trip well. If I were moving somewhere like Canada, I might want to drive my car up there. Hmmm. I envy those of you who could pack your life in a backpack and head out. I just love having my stuff around me. I suspect I better start culling in earnest. -
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Sat, July 3, 2004 - 4:01 PMI am a total packrat myself and trying to get rid of stuff. When it comes down to it, very very little of it is meaningful to me or irreplaceable. The idea of getting rid of everything and making a fresh start is actually kind of freeing to me -- after all, I could eventually get more "stuff". :)
The things that are meaningful to me are having my music, something to read, pictures of family, a way to contact them. There are tons of things I feel like I "need" to have but I could definitely live without them.
Isn't it weird to think of how you might start over again, with no clutter? I'd also hesitate to buy again things like a TV, computer... I wonder what my life would be like if I didn't have so many mindless distractions to keep me from actually living my life. :)
I was reading articles this morning on how "hoarding" is a sign of OCD. It made me feel like I really ought to attend to all the closets packed full of useless stuff... -
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Sat, July 3, 2004 - 4:35 PMSometimes I think how much I'd like to take the roof off my house, shake it out, and start over with nothing. Hoarding is a sign of lots of different things. I don't think I am a hoarder yet, but yeah, mine needs controlling too.
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Sat, November 6, 2004 - 6:36 AMThis is a fitting topic for me. I have been forced to condense my life twice now. The first time was right before my last semester of college. I ended up making the difficult decision to throw all of my belonging into storage, and move into a tent for my last semester. This ended up being a wise decision (lymes disease aside) because i graduated debt free. I'm quite proud of that. After school i went through one month of treatment for my newly acquired lymes disease (school health insurance) and then made the decision to get rid of more possessions and move into a truck. That truck has been my primary home for the last two and a half years.
The thing that I have not yet been able to part with are my laptop. This is very important for finding jobs, and keeping up with friends. My bike, (my truck is my house, but my bike is my car). And I have a bad habit of keeping an assortment of books on hand at all times. Books are important, but you can only read so many at a time. After years, I finally got rid of my cell, but i'm not yet sure if this is a good thing. Not having phone bills is nice though.
I'm about to spend a few months checking out the living / work situation in central and south america. I'm leaving my truck, and flying to Costa in Dec. This means I will have to leave behind everything except for the essentials. It should be interesting
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Sun, November 28, 2004 - 9:19 AMHaving gone through the process, I regret having shipped all the crap that I shipped. It cost an arm and a leg to get it down here, and now, a year later, it is still sitting in storage (for a number of reasons I won't go into here) - the only stuff I really miss is my music collection and my books. The rest I would have been better off to leave behind.
I too have gone through the life-simplification process twice, and both times, I seem to have taken more with me than I ended up appreciating.
A comment about the cell phone comment in this thread - forget taking your cell phone. In most countries, to register a cell phone locally, it needs to be bought either in-country or through the cell service provider that you plan to use. Here in Costa Rica, I had to buy a phone locally for $120, and jump through a bunch of paperwork hoops to get it registered and working. Cheap to operate, though - $13 a month plus 1.8 cents a minute. Don't figure you can use your current U.S. account - in the few countries that allow international roaming, you will pay through the nose for the privilege - $2 or $3 a minute.